Thanks for being here and being part of creating a new culture of grieving. I write this with a fresh round of Earth grief as I continue to take in the recent news about forever chemicals in the water. Sorry if you don’t know that news and now you do. I feel[…]
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How to Have a Sorrow Party; Creating a New Culture of Grief
Blessings to you on this new moon. I hope you can take a moment to pause and rest during this sacred time. This month I want to invite you to really drop into changing the way we Westerners deal with grief, or rather how we don’t. We must create a new culture of being with[…]
How to Move Anger and Rage
Hello dear ones, Rage is appropriate today… I feel it in my throat, and have the need to both cry and scream. I started writing this on the day Roe vs. Wade was overturned. I feel my grief just thinking about the impact this decision will have on so many. Now you know where I[…]
An Invitation to Grieve Online & In-Person
Hello there loves, How are you in this month of June? I‘m doing mostly well…as we head into the hot dry season here and summer is in full swing, you’ll catch me with my hands in the dirt and Michael supervising me on our small bit of land that we get to steward. We were[…]
My Earth Grief Experience
Hello dear ones, Happy May! Yesterday I took a walk in the rain! I wasn’t dressed for the water pelting me but I didn’t mind, I wanted to be soaked just like the land and plants were. And we were all sighing with relief at this most welcomed water. You see, we didn’t get our usual April showers and[…]
Earth Grief and What To Do About It…
Hello dear ones, It’s April, the month where we celebrate Earth Day. I’m as old as Earth Day…it was born the year I was—1970. It was created as a way to bring more awareness to pollution and deforestation at that time. By now there is so much more that the earth needs[…]
Artful Living During Times of Crisis
Hello dear ones, I’ve been in a weekly online group since July of 2021 called “Soulful Life” with my grief mentor Francis Weller and another grief warrior, Holly Truhlar, along with about 70 other participants. It’s become a healing balm I look forward to each week, especially now with the war in the Ukraine added[…]
About FONO (Fear of Normal), Managing our return together
Hello dear ones, This blog expands on something in my last one–pacing yourself as we begin to open up. If you need an online grief ritual, my friends Joanna Laws Landis and Will Rogers will be facilitating a Grief Tending Circle on Thursday, March 3rd from 2-5pm PST / 5-8pm EST on Zoom. It’s[…]
Pandemic Practices I Plan to Keep
Hello dear ones, Welcome to 2022. And yeah, I know it’s almost February…I’m giving myself more grace with have-to’s and deadlines, I hope you can too. Does the New Year feel new and did you celebrate it? I didn’t. I didn’t feel like celebrating the New Year at all this year because of the fires[…]
Celebrating Light and Compost
Hello dear ones, ‘Tis the season of wonder as we celebrate the return of the light. And I’m curious how you’re doing in these holy-days. I thought I’d share a few things that I do to decrease the amount of stress that seems to pile up. And if you’re grieving, this time of year can[…]